Dr Bisola Clark, wife of Chief E. K
Clarke whose two children, Adeife(10) and AKinola (14) were killed in Iyabo
Obasanjo's convoy on the 20th of April 2003 has sent an open letter addressed
to the Obasanjos expressing her distaste in the manner they handled the death
of her children.
Mrs Clarke, who wasn't married to
the elder-statesman when the incident happened, said she saw the need to speak
up after Iyabo said in her open letter to her dad that the death of the
children was what spurred her to pursue political appointments.
In the open letter, Mrs Clarke said
none of the Obasanjo's have been there for her emotionally since the sad day
she lost her two children in assassination attempt on Iyabo Obasanjo's life.
Iyabo has since responded to her
former friend's letter. See excerpts after the cut from the letter sent to Vanguard and
Iyabo's response
"Her actions and in-actions since then would seem to
indicate that she never truly appreciated the gravity of what happened that
day. Iyabo in the said letter made copious references to an incident which has
remained etched in my memory over this period of 10 years since my two
children, one aged 10 (Adeife) and the other aged 14 (Akinola) were brutally
murdered by gun men in Iyabo Obasanjo’s car as we drove from their ancestral
village, Igbogun, several kilometres before Ifo in Ogun State.
At some point in the journey Ms Iyabo Obasanjo had suggested
that my children should join her car with her police orderly and an elderly
member of Iyabo’s family who was traveling with her on that day and her driver,
while Iyabo and I drove in the car of my friend who voluntarily came to pick me
up to go to Igbogun, because my driver failed to show up on that day. I had
kept quiet about this incident for all these years but when I read Iyabo’s
letter to her father, in which she alluded to the incident, I felt that the
time had come for me to break my silence for the sake of posterity.
Up till now, justice is yet to be served, ten years after
the incident. At the inauguration of the foundation which I established in
memory of the children, I recall that no single member of President Obasanjo’s
family, not even Iyabo, in whose place my children died, attended the launch of
the foundation.
In the end, Gen. Obasanjo sent his then Minister of State
for Women’s Affairs (Miss Funke Adedoyin). I also vividly recall my mother
sorrowfully remarking that the Obasanjos had reduced the death of her
grandchildren to a ‘women’s affair’ issue. The theme of setting up the
foundation was to immortalize the names of Adeife and Akinola but painfully
Gen. Obasanjo and Iyabo never got involved. Quite sadly, they never did
anything in this regard and never took part in any of the various activities we
organized at that point in time or since then." she said.
Iyabo Obasanjo response
There is no way to compensate Mrs Bisola Clark for the death
of her two children. It is impossible to compensate for the loss of a child
albeit two. As often alluded to, the loss of a child is the worst emotional
pain we as humans can have. I don’t aim to undermine her loss but how does any
society help someone deal with the loss of a child. I participated as a member
of the board of the foundation for the children when it started and contributed
funds at the start-up. I was not invited to the formal launch of the foundation
and I was not in the country when it occurred.
The impression I was given was that it was for huge donors
to give money and I didn’t have that kind of money to give. The foundation was
a family foundation and my interference in its handling was not appreciated
which I understood. I referred to the incident in my letter because I was and
is still a very traumatic incident for me. I am not trying to belittle her
pain, which I can not even claim to be able to fully understand. No one has
ever told me the motive of the killers but of course I am well aware that if I
was in my car that day I will not be alive today. In the history of our country
so many senseless deaths have occurred.
I do believe we need, as a country, to consider this in our
actions in trying to make these kinds of loss of life a thing of the past. The
death of those two wonderful children was one of the reasons I accepted the job
to come back to Nigeria and serve in some capacity first in the cabinet of
Gbenga Daniel for four years, then as Senator. I was living in the US without
any plans of moving back to Nigeria when the incidence occurred. My belief was
and is that the only way to make this right is to make sure we create a country
where such random acts of violence don’t occur and that we work to develop the
country.
I failed in my attempt at that but I am still hopeful that
at some point, the insecurity of life of the average Nigerian as it is today
will be a thing of the past and we will create a country with adequate
education and training for the youth to prevent them falling into mischief and
a fair and just criminal justice system that punishes offenders, to deter. Dr.
Clark and I were not even friends and who knows if we could have been without
the incidence. It is now a mute point, that I went on with my life and she went
with hers is not strange. We could not force a friendship where there was none.
Whether the gunmen intended to kill me or were just after
the car as some have alluded to (this would be a strange way to steal a car, by
putting 50 bullet holes in it) I have resolved will never be known. I don’t
know what Mrs Clark will want me to do for her. If there is a way to not have
those children or anyone else in the car that day, I would go back through time
and do it or just even sit in my own car. I was happy to see a picture of her
getting married recently on the internet and I wish her the best married life
can offer.”

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